Closing the Shutters on this Space....

Well, friends, you've probably noticed that things have been pretty quiet around here lately.   There are a lot of reasons for that.

Most of you know that until recently, our family was living overseas.  This summer we came back to the States.  Originally, it was only going to be for a year, but now it looks like we will be settling down here for good.   This is a little bit of a sad thing, but mostly a really good thing for our family.  My husband and I are on the same page and at peace about this new direction for our family.

While we were overseas, we had a very small homeschooling community and even smaller community at all interested in Charlotte Mason or the Classical Liberal Arts tradition.  Blogging was one way that I was able to stay connected to others pursuing this way of education (the AO Forum being the other way).    My life was also much simpler and less busy in many ways, so I had the time to write more consistently.

Since returning to the States, my day to day life has changed drastically.   We have been welcomed in to a local church family with open arms.  We are part of a co-op this year, and I am teaching there which has been a wonderful experience.  I have made other connections with old friends and new.  All of these things are wonderful: I am so very grateful for the opportunities and relationships that God has given us in this new chapter and am excited to see them unfold.

 I am also a lot busier than I was.  I don't have the time to invest as much time online as I used to.  I don't think this is entirely a bad thing...actually I think it's probably a good thing.   But it does mean I've needed to prioritize how I spend the online time I have.  I've wrestled for awhile with what those priorities need to be.  My local real-life relationships come first.  Educating, nurturing and discipling  my children, supporting my husband in our new ministry endeavors here in the States, teaching my co-op class, and investing in those others that God has placed in our path.    My involvement over on the AO Forum is also high priority to me - many of those ladies have become my very dear, real-life friends as we've discussed books and life and prayed for one another online, and then offline at the conference this summer, and now back online again.  I have other hobbies that I'd like to be able to pursue: reading, crochet, embroidery, nature journaling.  And realistically, that's about all that I have time for right now. 

So that is why it is time to say goodbye for now.  I will be leaving this blog here for future reference, but there won't be any new content for the foreseeable future.  I appreciate all of you who have taken the time to read and comment here.   May the Lord bless and keep you wherever you are.

From My Commonplace: Poetry by Sara Teasdale

A smattering of the poems I have been enjoying with my Year 3 student recently:

 

Vignettes Overseas: Stresa

The moon grows out of the hills

A yellow flower,

The lake is a dreamy bride

Who waits her hour.

 

Beauty has filled my heart,

It can hold no more,

It is full, as the lake is full,

From shore to shore.

 

 

Stars

Alone in the night

On a dark hill

With pines around me

Spicy and still,

 

And a heaven full of stars

Over my head,

White and topaz

And a misty red;

 

Myriads with beating

Hearts of fire

That aeons

Cannot vex or tire;

 

Up the dome of heaven

Like a great hill,

I watch them marching

Stately and still,

 

And I know that I

Am honored to be

Witness

Of so much majesty.

 

 

The Coin

Into my heart's treasury

I slipped a coin

That time cannot take

Nor a thief purloin, --

Oh better than minting of a gold-crowned king

Is the safe-kept memory

Of a lovely thing.

 

~Sara Teasdale

 

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My Bookbag This Week:

Devotional: Job with a commentary: Job: The Wisdom of the Cross (Ash)

Theological or Christian Living:  Openness Unhindered (Butterfield)

AO Book Discussion Group: Ivanhoe (Scott)

On Education: Mind to Mind (Mason and Glass)

Shakespeare: Hamlet (aiming to read a scene-a-day alongside my daughter's Shakespeare class at our co-op.  Don't we all need a little more Shakespeare in our lives?!)

Novel/Biography/Memoir:  The Rosemary Tree (Goudge)

Read-Alouds with the Children:  The Little White Horse (Goudge), Pilgrim's Progress (Bunyan), Charlotte's Web (White)

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From My Commonplace: Father to Son

Polonius, to his son Laertes as he leaves home:

 

"Yet here, Laertes? Aboard, Aboard, for shame!

The wind sits in the shoulder of your sail,

And you are stayed for.  There, my blessing with thee.

And these few precepts in thy memory

Look thou character.  Give thy thoughts no tongue,

Nor any unproportioned thought his act.

Be thou familiar, but by no means vulgar.

Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,

Grapple them until they soul with hoops of steel,

But do not dull thy palm with entertainment

Of each new-hatched, unfledged courage. Beware

Of entrance to a quarrel, but being in,

Bear't that th'opposed may beware of thee.

Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.

Take each man's censure, but reserve thy judgement.

Costly thy habit as they purse can buy,

But not expressed in fancy (rich, not gaudy),

For the apparel oft proclaims the man,

And they in France of the best rank and station

Are of a most select and generous chief in that.

Neither a borrower or a lender be,

For loan oft loses both itself and friend,

And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.

This above all: to thine own self be true,

And it must follow, as night the day,

Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Farewell.  My blessing this season with thee."

 

Act I, Scene 3, Lines 60-87

~William Shakespeare, Hamlet

 

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My Bookbag This Week:

Devotional: Job with a commentary: Job: The Wisdom of the Cross (Ash)

Theological or Christian Living:  Openness Unhindered: Further Thoughts of An Unlikely Convert (Butterfield)

AO Book Discussion Group: Ivanhoe (Scott)

On Education: Mind to Mind (Mason and Glass)

Shakespeare: Hamlet (aiming to read a scene-a-day alongside my daughter's Shakespeare class at our co-op.  Don't we all need a little more Shakespeare in our lives?!)

Novel/Biography/Memoir:  The Awakening of Miss Prim (Fenollera)

Read-Alouds with the Children:  The Little White Horse (Goudge), Pilgrim's Progress (Bunyan), Charlotte's Web (White)

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What We've Been Up To...

Out and About:

Two weekends ago we took a quick trip to Pittsburgh  for the wedding of a dear friend of our family.   The wedding was in the afternoon, so we had Saturday morning free to explore a bit.  The cold, damp weather put a damper on our plan A which involved going to a park…so we ended up at the Frick Art and Historical Center.  Michelle loved the art display – especially the 15^th century tapestries in the main gallery.  She was also delighted to find a painting by Peter Paul Rubens, the artist we have been studying in our co-op class.  (Interestingly, one of the musical pieces featured in the wedding was Bach's Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring, which we had also just studied in our co-op class!)   They also loved touring the restored Victorian mansion on the property and the Greenhouse that featured many exotic plants….including many familiar to us from our yard in Africa. J

 

Greenhouse Scavenger Hunt at the Frick Center in Pittsburgh

 

In the Schoolroom:

We are about 6 weeks in to our new school year.  We wrapped up our rather disrupted Term 2, and are starting in to Term 3 now.   We are enjoying participating in a weekly co-op each week.  Michelle is especially loving her drama class, featuring Shakespeare's Hamlet (they will also study A Midsummer Night's Dream and then perform some scenes at the end of the year).  I love that she is loving her introduction to "real" Shakespeare.  I am teaching history, literature, writing, and art/music appreciation to third and fourth graders and LOVING it.  While our co-op is technically a classical group, not a specifically Charlotte Mason one, the content lends itself very much to being taught with Charlotte Mason's methods and I am really enjoying applying what I've learned as a homeschooler to a classroom environment and loving what the group dynamic brings to our narrations and discussions.  That's probably a post all its own, though…

 

Phonics Lesson with Elizabeth

 

Creatively:

Creative projects?  What?  I feel like we got on a roller coaster when school started again and we haven't gotten off yet.

 

I guess I ought to make more effort to pick up my crochet or embroidery when we sit down to watch TV or a movie in the evening, or on our next road trip, rather than letting them languish in their basket.

 

The children at least are doing drama and drawing at their co-op each week.  And we've been nature journaling a little less frequently than I'd like, but still we're hitting it every other week on average.  We've done no handicrafts… but it dawned on me that right now the weather is beautiful, and the light still long in the evening.  The children have all made friends in our apartment buildings, and in the last week or so have been playing a Roxaboxen-like imaginary town game on the playground.  Who wants to interrupt that?  The cold, icky weather and early dark are coming soon enough, and when they do staying in and working on handicraft projects will probably be a lot more appealing.

 

To everything a season, right?

 

We get real cozy in our homeschool....

 

In the Kitchen:

So, the church we've settled into here in North Carolina is really big on potluck suppers.  We had them weekly on Sunday nights during the summer, and now have them every other week on Tuesday (the small group meetings always feature a potluck).   This is a great and good thing – sharing a meal with people is a beautiful and natural way to build community – but I'm finding that I need to increase my repertoire of potluck dishes.  Anyone have a favorite?

 

Sneaking in a little nature journaling time for Mama while the kids were swimming.

 

Around the House:

My house is chaos.

 

Okay, not really that bad.  I still feel like I'm reeling from the start of the school year, though.  We really aren't involved in that many activities, but maybe because of the driving distance to many things I feel like I am always doing something or going somewhere.  I've also had lots of opportunities to get together with friends new and old, which is wonderful…but whew.   I'm still learning how to balance those things that I'd *like* to do with what I *need* to do.   Not doing very well with it at the moment, but trying.

 

 

What have you been up to?

From My Commonplace: On Sacramental Moments

"Beyond the official rites and sacraments, there are an untold number of sacramental acts available to us.  God reveals himself through the stuff of this world.  I have known God's grace while holding my daughter's hand, while feeling a cool breeze, while smelling a flower, while opening a gift, while kissing my wife, and through thousands of other ordinary moments. Each of these are sacramental.  God is always revealing himself, showing himself, and loving us through his creation.  Don't overlook even the smallest way in which our Father wants to be present to you today." (p.167-168)

 

~Thomas McKenzie, The Anglican Way

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My Bookbag This Week:

Devotional: Job with a commentary: Job: The Wisdom of the Cross (Ash)

Theological or Christian Living:  Openness Unhindered: Further Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert (Butterfield)

AO Book Discussion Group: Ivanhoe (Scott)

On Education: Mind to Mind (Mason and Glass)

Shakespeare: Hamlet (aiming to read a scene-a-day alongside my daughter's Shakespeare class at our co-op.  Don't we all need a little more Shakespeare in our lives?!)

Novel/Biography/Memoir: Between Books at the Moment

Read-Alouds with the Children:  The Little White Horse (Goudge), Pilgrim's Progress (Bunyan), Charlotte's Web (White)

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Nature Walk: First Signs of Fall

We took a lovely Sunday afternoon nature walk.  Fall is on the way!  I love fall, and since fall is sadly lacking in the eternal summer of the tropics, it's been three years since we had one.  I am so very excited. 

 

 

 

The really nice thing about taking our nature walk Sunday afternoon was that my husband was able to join us.  It was also a lovely way to regroup after a busy week (and before a new one). I'm thinking more Sunday afternoon nature walks will be in our future. 

 

 

The fruits of a magnolia tree.  Aren't they beautiful?  I've 'adopted' this tree because it fascinates me so much.

 

 

 

First bits of fall color.  There was already more today than we saw yesterday!

 

 

Some kind of fungi.  I've noticed a lot of interesting fungi around here.  Perhaps a fungi study in our future?

 

 

Goldenrod

 

 

My girls are collectors.  Elizabeth is picking a flower that we later identified as a purple mistflower….

 

 

…and Michelle an assortment of nuts and seeds.  She noted that a lot more acorns had dropped down from her adopted oak tree.

 

 

Back home for some journaling time…

 

 

Michelle's Acorns

 

 

James' Mistflower

 

 

Elizabeth's assorted finds: a lily pad with its stem, a magnolia seed, and a mace ball. 

 

 

We ended the evening with one last swim before our community pool closed for the season.  It didn't last long…the water was already too cold.

 

 

Welcome, fall!  We're so glad you're here.

Reflections on Ivanhoe, Interruptions, and Personhood

Our current book discussion over on the AO Forum is Sir Walter Scott's Ivanhoe.  We are only about a third of the way through it, but thus far it is (to quote one of my dear book discussion friends) magnificent.  Scott really has a way with descriptions, both in his scenes as well as in his characters.   The insights we have gained into each character have been very thought provoking.   Consider the following interaction from chapter 16 between a waylaid knight lost in the woods as night draws near and a secretive friar (the 'anchorite') who is reluctant to let him in and seems to be trying to hide something:

"But how," replied the knight, "is it possible for me to find my way through such a wood as this, when darkness is coming on?  I pray you, reverend father, as you are a Christian, to undo your door, and at least point out to me my road."

"And I pray you, good Christian brother," replied the anchorite, "to disturb me no more.  You have already interrupted one pater, two aves, and a credo, which I, miserable sinner that I am, should, according to my vow, have said before moonrise."

 

~Sir Walter Scott, Ivanhoe

This interaction immediately struck me because my gut instinct was to dislike the Friar - he obviously hiding something and skirting around it (although the knight very cleverly draws him out, as you discover as you continue to read the chapter).   And yet, how often do I respond in the same way that he does?  To my children?  To my husband?  How often do I get disgruntled when I am interrupted in what I want to do or called out on something, and justify my disgruntled response based on the "virtue" behind what I got disrupted from?  A child interrupts my devotional or prayer time to come sit in my lap and I push them away.  Or they get into an argument in the other room while I am trying to complete some 'important' task on the computer and I need to break my thought process and step away with the task incomplete yet again.  Or my husband wants to talk and I'd rather read my book.  Or whatever.  The list of 'interruptions' could go on.

 

But what if maybe that 'disruption' is something that God is calling me to in that moment?  Attending to the needs of my children.  Cultivating my relationship with my husband.  Taking time to help a friend.    I keep coming back to some of the presentations made at the AO Conference this summer.    My children - and my husband too - were born People.  I love them.  They are not just 'projects'.  As a mother, wife, homeschooler, and homemaker, I need to learn seize those 10 minutes here and there – whether that is 10 minutes to attend to a child or 10 minutes to attend to my husband or 10 minutes to attend to myself or my personal project – and not get disgruntled when I can't seem to get more than that.   And I need to continue to cultivate a habit of keeping a running conversation with God in the back of my mind, so that my communion with Him is uninterrupted even when my focused devotional time is.

 

I kinda think if I could remember those things - that my interruptions are People, that 10 minutes may be all I have, and that He is ever present with me – I would be less disgruntled when someone comes knocking at my door.